Life in Sydney

Alright so I've been in Sydney on and off for a little bit and I haven't said a thing about being in Sydney so let me say something now.

To start Sydney is such a metro place. It seems like it's such a big city from what others say like East Sydney, Paddington, Surry Hills, Darling Harbour and so on. Well let me tell you it is a big enough city that you can get lost in. You'll turn the corner and BAM!!!...you're like where the hell am I??? Yeah so as you can see I've done this a couple of times in the beginning, I know blonde moments right lol.

I swear everyone is like basically here in Sydney. If you want to see the Chinese, Japanese, Germans, Thais, Laotians, and so forth it's no problem. Walk down any street in Sydney and you'll see like 5 different nationalities within a 2 minute walk.

If you're ever in Sydney you'll have to walk down Oxford Ave., Elizabeth St. and Pitt St. Those are where the shopping is at. Elizabeth St. is more of the posh boutiques with all the higher end qualities. Pitt St. is a variety of different stores. You can find basically anything on Pitt St. Oh let me tell you about Oxford Ave...this has to be one of the most eccentric streeets yet. They have gay pride flags hanging everywhere and it's quite awesome. People here are more open to being out and about with their partners without being persecuted.

It's just as busy or maybe even busier than everyone thinks it is. When people think of Sydney what do they think of? Beaches right? Well there's much more to Sydney than the beaches. They have some clubs that are open 24 hrs a day...I haven't ventured out to see those quite yet but maybe one of these days I'll have to give it a go.

I think for us Americans we should have like a Aussie slang book. We Americans do not talk the way people on this side of the world talk at all. I find myself having to really pay attention and sometimes having to ask the person to repeat themselves. Can someone come up with an American to Aussie language book???

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Bangkok Early

I am going to be in Bangkok, Thailand a litttle earlier than expected. I will be there from next week Thursday the 13th to Sunday the 16th. This is going to be a business trip but then I still have the weekend to see some sights. I don't know how much I'll be able to see since it's such a short trip. I didn't expect to be in Bangkok or even in SE Asia til about New Years next month. Well even better I'm kinda glad that I get to go sooner.

I'm missing the food and people around SE Asia. Being an American you can appreciate the politeness, the common courtesy, and the soft spoken demeanor of those people. I'm ready to be back the days of early last summer when I spent a month in SE Asia. Ahh I can't wait til next week...hurry up and come already jeez!!

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Why Must I Get Married?

I get this news that all of my cousins have settled down. They are either "married", got kids, or engaged. Every time this subject comes up there's always the question..."When are you going to get married?" I hate this question so much that it makes me want to puke every time I hear it. Seriously I just want to blow chunks on anyone that asks me this question, maybe next time I just might (well not puke but maybe water out the mouth or something).

My answer to this question is always the same. "What is so good about being married in your mid twenties?" I mean seriously is there an expiration date on yourself if you're not married by a certain age? I think being in your mid twenties is the time that you find yourself, it's the time that you have for yourself. This is the time that you can be a self-fish bitch and pleasure yourself (alright not in that way).

I don't see the rush in taking the big plunge. Isn't the divorce rate up? Come on now being married so young is not all it's cracked up to be...to me that is. I want to travel, I want to meet new people, I want to spend money on myself damn it. Let me flirt with as many hot boys and lay on as many beaches as I can before I settle down with one guy. It does not mean that if you're not married by a certain age that you're going to be a lonely hag for the rest of your life. To me it means that you're an independent person that is going to put yourself first before having to answer or compromise with someone else.

Alright I'm sounding like I'm a self-fish bastard, but who cares. I'm not ready to give my life up at an early age right now. Let me indulge in my travels, my career, let me amass my LV collection first. I have no qualms with marriage but it's not for me right now. Good for those who want to be tied down and have found that person you want to be with forever. Do not force marriage on those who are not ready for it and still want to have some fun.
*To my family: When I decide to get married, you'll receive an invite or else you'll just see pictures...HA!!!*

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Back To Laos Pt. 1

I went back to Laos for the first time in 12 years. Yes I know a long time right? Well factor in school plus working 2 jobs and you literally don't have any time what so ever. I decided that I was going to take a month off work to go on vacation with my sister. We decided that we would go to visit our grandparents and family. I was kinda scared of going at first because well I haven't been there in a very long time, I've heard stories of Laotians robbing each other, and I was just basically scared of seeing the family that I haven't seen in forever.

My sister and I decided to go in May after our finals. Well lets just say we didn't have time from the end of our finals to getting on the plane. We tend to leave our packing til the very last minute and I tend to overpack because I think I need everything (so sue me girls tend to do that). When we got on the plane it was kinda of a relief to be leaving all the stress of work and school behind. It was such a long trip from Chicago all the way to Japan for our first layover. Tokyo's airport is such a huge airport, I thought we were going to get lost. This is when we encountered our problem of the whole trip. We asked a worker there where our gate was and he was asking about a visa. We said that we would get our visa for Laos when we got there, as you can do because they do "on-arrival visas". Apparently this dude didn't understand what I was saying because he kept saying that we needed a visa to enter the country. Of course we know this and we try to explain to him again but slower this time. I guess he got frustrated by us either because he didn't understand what I was saying or it was my sister standing next to me rolling her eyes. This dude walks away and gets his supervisor to come talk to us. (Mind you at this time everyone in the terminal is staring at us and talking amongst themselves as to what was going on.) So this guy's supervisor comes up to us and says the same thing, that we needed a visa. I told this lady "look I already told that guy that we can do on-arrival visas when we get to Laos, go and ask either one of these people in the terminal that's going to Laos also that we can do it that way". She proceeds to tell me that Laos won't let us enter without a visa and that we won't be able to board the plane until we take pictures for our visas. At this point I'm tired because I haven't slept in about 24 hrs and getting irritated by these people. I kinda snapped at her and told her that I'm not leaving the airport to take pictures for a visa that I can get when I get there and plus my flight was leaving in about 1 hr. She then tells me that my sister and I can't board the plane until we go with her to get our pictures taken. OMG what do these people not understand about doing it when we get to Laos?!?! My sister told me to give in and so I did (this is hard for me to give in due to what I do for a living) and we went to take our pictures, but before we went I told the lady "if you make us miss our flight then I'm not going to be a happy camper, I will get louder in the airport and I will have you suspended". I know a little dramatic right but remember I haven't slept in about a whole day and I think I lost a day in between too.

We finally get on our plane to Thailand just in the nick of time. Let me tell you we were not very happy at all by the time we reached the plane. We had a 6 hr plane ride from Tokyo to Thailand and had to wait in Thailand til 7 the next morning for our connecting flight into Laos. Why is that? I never got why there are so limited planes going to Laos and why we had to wait like 8 hrs. for the next flight. We were delirious by the time we got to Thailand cause at this point we were going on like 30 hrs. no sleep. I have not done this no sleep thing since doing my Undergrad studies and I'm older now and need my sleep. We walked around the big new airport for a bit and got a bite to eat. I swear it was like all eyes were on us for some reason. Were we looking ragged? Well of course if you've been on like a 30 hr. trip so far. Is it cause we're foreigners? Well of course but there's plenty of them in Thailand. Who knows why they were all staring and at this point in time we didn't really care. After we had a bite to eat we were walking out of the restaurant and I heard a familiar song. I go to my sister "hey it's Joni...", she cuts me off before I can finish my sentence and starts to look around like crazy cause she thought it was actually him there. I proceed to tell her "no his song is on the radio". We had like a couple more hours to go til our flight out so we played a little card game called Sequence that we brought along with us and boy did we attract a crowd of people just watching us play games (it doesn't help that we were kinda loud at the same time too). After 8 hrs. of waiting in Thailand we finally get to board our plane...Yay!!!!

The flight from Thailand to Laos was the shortest flight I've ever took. The flight was so short that you couldn't really take a nap when on the plane cause by the time you fell asleep you were there already. That's why I don't understand why there isn't that many flights going to and from Thailand and Laos. When we got to Laos it was such a shock, the humidity hits you right when you get off the plane. We made our way through customs and the customs agents tries to speak English to us because they hear us speaking English to this Scottish guy helping him out a bit. My sister and I just look at each other and was just kinda confused as to what he wanted to say to us. This is what he said to us "Ver you go to flom?" He asked this a couple of times and finally I just asked him in Laotian what he was trying to ask us, he was completely taken aback that we were able to speak Laotian fluently especially for people raised in the United States. Everyone wanted to help us out in the airport, but us not being so accustomed to having people pick up our things were kind of hesitant. We're actually those people that do everything for themselves so we were not used to it. I swear once we walked through those doors out into the airport lobby our aunts that were there didn't even recognize us!!!! We didn't expect them to recognize us anyways but we walked passed them until I heard my name kinda in a question and I'm the kinda person that's like loud and just yells out when I hear my name. We finally get to meet our aunts and uncle after all this time and after all the hassle of getting there. It feels like old times.

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